Dating can be nerve-wracking, especially if it’s your first time in the dating game. Even if you feel like you have your life together, putting yourself out there to connect with new people can be challenging. That’s why so many people dread the first date — it forces us to get out of our comfort zones and into a situation that can be awkward, uncomfortable, and even scary at times. But dating doesn’t have to be scary or feel weird; as long as you go into it with confidence and a positive attitude, your first date can be nothing but a great experience from beginning to end. Whether it’s your very first date ever or just your latest attempt at finding love again after a break-up or divorce, here are some common mistakes you want to avoid while going on that initial coffee meet-up: